This year, my birthday in Vietnam gifted me more than just memories of fun and family. It presented an unexpected lesson in grace, courtesy of my 10-year-old son, Judah. In the sweltering heat and humidity, we spent the day playing sports and enjoying each other’s company. As the temperature rose, we sought refuge with some refreshing drinks. I opted for carrot juice, its vibrant orange hue promising a burst of freshness. Little did I know, that juice would become the catalyst for a profound life lesson.
As we relaxed, I opened my juice cup a bit too eagerly, and, to my horror, the juice spilled all over Judah’s trousers, socks, and shoes, drenching him in sticky orange liquid. I flustered an apology, embarrassed and helpless, as we had no extra clothes nearby. But Judah’s reaction caught me off guard. With a calm smile, he simply said, “It’s okay, Mommy.” In that moment, his grace and forgiveness left me speechless.
Reflecting on Judah’s kindness, I was reminded of Ephesians 4:32, which says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Judah’s immediate response wasn’t out of obligation; it was genuine, reminding me that grace flows freely when it comes from the heart. His gentle reaction reflected the forgiving nature Christ modeled, and I wondered if I would have responded with such calm had the roles been reversed.
Judah’s example brought to life Jesus’s teaching in Matthew 18:21-22, where He calls us to forgive “seventy times seven” times. This doesn’t mean counting to a specific number but rather nurturing a forgiving heart that chooses grace every time. Judah’s reaction demonstrated the boundless nature of forgiveness, showing how a patient heart can transform frustrating moments into reflections of love.
Later, when we returned to our room, I told Judah how his grace had deeply impacted me. What began as a day of celebration became a lesson on what truly matters: responding with love when situations go wrong. His kindness and words were etched in my heart as a testimony of the grace we are all called to show.
Judah’s response reminded me that forgiveness is not just an ideal; it’s an action that has the power to soften hearts and inspire change. His simple words, “It’s okay, Mommy,” taught me that living with grace brings peace and spreads love to everyone around us. Judah’s example has left a lasting imprint on me, one I hope to emulate every day.
| Consider this Three To-Dos for Living in Grace Practice Daily Kindness: Take time each day to respond kindly, even when situations don’t go your way. Remember that every interaction is a chance to reflect God’s love. Forgive Quickly: When someone wrongs you, don’t wait to offer forgiveness. Like Judah, respond from the heart, embracing the freedom that comes with grace. Model Grace for Others: Show others the beauty of grace by embodying compassion and patience. Your actions can inspire a ripple effect, encouraging others to live out love and forgiveness. |
